Friday, March 28, 2025

Creating a space of comfort, a free stitchery, and family pics...

 


The rain continues, after months of monsoons, and the days are dark. Though this is still our summer wet season, it normally diminshes when March arrives, but this year, March has had the highest rainfall in recorded history for our town. It's still hot (though not as hot as usual in the north Australian tropics this time of year), humid, and very sticky outside, despite the nights of thunderously heavy rain.
But inside, where the constantly dark grey skies rob the rooms of light, I have decided to stop complaining about the lack of sunshiny dry days, and embrace what we have been given. 
This week I changed the living/dining room around so that our very old turquoise couch now sits under the front window, and I've pulled a rug in front of it, and moved the coffee table to be at arms length from it. 
In doing so, I have now created a cosy reading area, near the air conditioner, where I can imagine myself relaxing in a 'real' autumn, like the southern states have.


Upon doing this, I thought about a Jane Austen quote from her novel, Emma, and that I had designed a pattern for this and stitched it a number of years ago, 2016 I think?
So I hunted in my large box of completed stitcheries and found it. Such a perfect quote for times like these, when going out is avoided due to flooded roads and rivers, driving conditions are difficult, and there's a general desire to avoid doing anything outside unless necessary -

"There is nothing like staying at home for real comfort." 
Jane Austen, Emma

With an audio book in the background (no, not Jane Austen, but an Agatha Christie set in the early years), a large cup of tea, some leftover fruit mince tarts from Christmas, and the soft lamplight from my desk shedding a calm light around the sewing room, I began to bring this little stitchery to life as a mini-pillow.



It may not be one you'd throw on the couch, or lean back against when your back is aching from pulling weeds, but its a pretty little thing that could sit on your book shelf, perhaps next to your Austens? Or, as I have found, it's just right, to quote Goldilocks, for supporting a book on your lap as you read. You could make one as a gift for that friend who simply loves a good Jane Austen novel, or just needs a reminder to find comfort in her home?
I was asked recently if I use a hoop when I embroider, and the response is no, I do not. I did try long ago, but it just never felt right, so I would make myself a small pillow and rest the heel of my right hand on it as I stitched, and this (I felt) gave me more control over the tension of the thread, the fabric and the needle, so I've been doing this ever since. 
Now I have this little pillow to double as a rest for my books as I read, and a rest for my hand as I stitch. 
As you can see below, I do love a Jane Austen novel, and I have passed that love onto dear Blossom too. These are some of my collection, but over the years I have gifted Bloss with a vintage Austen (all over 80 years old) from my treasured collection most birthdays. She has them all now, and one day, if Jesus has not yet returned, she will pass them along to her girls.


Is there a space in your home that you could create as a calming place of rest to read and enjoy a tea, coffee or hot cocoa? We only have the one living area, so I had to use my creativity when planning that spot under the front window, and I do need to change the covering on that turquoise couch because I would like a more neutral colour as we hopefully come into a true autumn in another month or so. Fortunately we have a beige waffle weave blanket that would cover it, and it will work just lovely with the beige throw in the main photo at the beginning of this post. 

I also found a lovely scarf to use on the coffee table as a runner, but I must tell you, this is all rather different for me as I've never been a beige kind of person when it comes to colour in the home...it must be this longing for autumn and winter. 

It's a wonderful mental adjustment when you choose to put off the discontent that can creep in during times of change, those seasons when you have no control over so much that is happening outside your door. That's why I cherish my home, for it truly is my sanctuary, and it is a privilege to create a place of welcome and comfort and grace for my husband, and for our family and friends when they visit. Is it easy? Not all the time. It takes intentionality, and purpose - both of which bolster me forward when I find my mind wearied by ongoing challenges. It also means surrendering my will to God, because I can at times fall prey to my own feelings of discontent, but thankfully the older I get, the deeper into the Word I am, the less that happens. Making this small area of cosiness was easy, I just didn't think of it soon enough, but once I did...well, my heart is happy. And content. 

If you'd like the complete pattern for the Comforts of Home (stitchery and pillow with insert as well) it's HERE in my Etsy Shop

EASTER GIFT

With just over three weeks until we celebrate Resurrection Sunday, I wanted to share once again this older pattern of mine with you. You have time to stitch it, and as I have written in the pattern, you can choose to either include the applique border, or leave it out. 


I look at the border as being representative of the Tomb being opened and the cross left empty. Empty because our Lord, who was brutally beaten and crucified, ROSE TO LIFE on the third day, and his disciples found that dark and forboding space which had recently hidden the body of Christ, open and empty. 


If you would like to stitch this free pattern simply use the link below to download it. May you be blessed as you stitch!

DOWNLOAD He Is Risen

I shall sign off today with some photos of Blossom, Ross and the children taken recently. Many of you write and ask how they are, pray for them, and request some new photos...so here they are, in our monsoon-y 2025 so far. The children love to be outside between the storms, and as the family live just near the beach they often escape there to play and collect shells. 













Until next time, God bless, and I pray that if you have not yet found it, that the Lord will direct you how and where to create your own space, or place, of contentment within your  home...

Love, 


20 comments:

Joanne said...

Hi Jennifer,
There is nothing like staying home for real comfort.
So true, In Dutch " oost west thuis best" . east, west, home is best. :)
I have a cozy corner for stitching in the living room. A three tiered rolling trolly holds what I need close by.
Looks like blossom and family are settling in there new home and enjoying the area . Thanks for sharing the beautiful photos. The one with the three walking umbrellas is fantastic !
Have a great weekend !
hugs, take care,
Joanne

Lin said...

Lovely family photos Jennifer.
One of my favourite pin cushions is the one I made during lockdown - My Home is My Haven - an Anni Downs design I think although annoyingly I can't find the little book it came from st the moment. That time was not difficult for me, staying home and enjoying it and the garden properly without rushing to fit everything in so we could go out. Your little reading are looks delightful and inviting. Have a lovely weekend. xx

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much Jenny I do love reading your daily life and catching up on what you are stitching and doing 💓 yes staying home is something I’m looking forward to in my move next month. Just to sit and stitch or knit in my own small space. Everything is packed ready to be moved . I’m off to my firstborn grandsons wedding in the 9th April a day before my settlement … 4 hours away but I’m going to stay and embrace this special time 💞🙏 I’ve downloaded your stitchery thank you so special 💓 God Bless
Kerryn Wright

Jenny of Elefantz said...

I love your Dutch saying!
All three children love their umbrellas, and love using them in the rain. They've had a lot of time doing that this year. Ha ha!

Jenny of Elefantz said...

I agree Lin. It's probably not popular to say, but I also enjoyed lockdown - not the reason of course, but the quietness of the streets, the slowing of everything, the time to relax in our home and the general atmosphere of a peaceful unhurried life.
I must look up that pattern. Bless you.

Jenny of Elefantz said...

How exciting , Kerryn! May the Lord bless your grandson and his wife with a happy marriage and long life together. x

Anonymous said...

I’ve been praying for protection over your home lately. I’ll continue to do that. I suppose we should pray like that all the time, even when the weather is beautiful. Your Easter stitchery really resonated with me this year. I know I’ve seen it before, but the fabric you chose and the way you cut it looks so powerful in the photo. I’ve a mind to look for something similar.

May your reading time be relaxing,
Mel

Allie said...

Oh gosh what gorgeous pics - may the Lord bless and keep your little family always! I can't get over how big the children are getting, how time does fly. And I love your nook - I've made my living room my library, with comfy couch and plenty of quilts and afghans, and I agree - staying home is best! Love you!

Anonymous said...

I agree with the lovely comment on the lovely pillow, and home is where I want to be. I have hoped for pictures also I did not ask for them. I was thrilled you shared some with all of us.The children have grown so and are all so adorable.I was even more excited to see the one of Blossom and hubby. Such a sweet couple. Blossom looks exactly like you in the picture! Beautiful! Thank you for sharing. God Bless

Anonymous said...

Good Morning Jennifer,
As I too have been working on making our home less cluttered and more of a place of rest and comfort, I am inspired by your posts. Home should be as you describe - a place of welcoming, a place of peace, a place where love reigns - but it does take effort :) I was one too who actually found the lockdown very calming. As always your posts encourage and uplift me - a message from the Lord speaking through you. I cannot describe how a feeling of calmness and purpose fills me as I read each entry - truly a blessing each time. Thank you for sharing and for your generosity with your time and with your beautiful stitcheries. How lovely to have a daughter who shares your interests and love for the Lord !! Those grandchildren, like mine, are growing and growing - and I cherish all the times spent in their midst. Enjoy the blessings of each day - I look forward to hearing from you soon again. Hugs,
Roxanne

Miriam said...

A big big hug to the little three. Enjoy your new "cosy reading area" . As for me I don't have an exact and nice place in the house for praying and reading. I stay at the kitchen table or on the armchair, but a complete little space only for me should be better.
Have a nice week end,
Miriam

Annabel said...

It is lovely to see photos of the family and wow the kids have grown so much! It is fantastic they live near the beach too! I also love my home and love being at home. I have total contentment. If I go away I am longing to go home. In a world of keeping up with the Kardashians being content at home is a beautiful gift. xxx

Anonymous said...

I sure enjoy your posts and you are so generous. I’d love to get the Resurrection pattern done for Easter! Thank you!

Anonymous said...

Bonjour Jenny
J'ai toujours plaisir à vous lire , vos articles sont agréables et me reposent l'esprit .J'ai un emploi très prenant physiquement et mentalement .Je considère la maison comme un refuge ,que j'aime entretenir , en France dire que l'on aime les tâches ménagères est un peu difficile à faire..
Moi aussi j'ai bien vécu la période Covid , repos , jardinage , couture.et tricot...mais nous étions dans une maison pas dans un HLM ..
Merci à vous Jenny pour vos bonnes paroles
Françoise

Susan said...

Thank you for another lovely pattern and the updated pictures of your family. They have grown so much, You and your family are always in my prayers.

Janice said...

It sounds like you are making the best of the weather situation by making yourself a comfy little nest. Like you, I find a hoop rather cumbersome to work with. Likewise, I’ve struggled to use a thimble, despite trying several. I really did need something when stitching my hexies, as I was developing a hole in my finger. Fortunately, I discovered the sticky leather dots. What a game changer they have been. Back to you, it is lovely to see that Blossom and her family are settling into their new home.

Mary-Lou said...

Hi Jennifer, thank you again for your lovely letter,I write this in our garden in beautiful sunshine.Mark downloaded Proverbs31.I look forward to reading it.Also Lovely photos of your lovely family.Its the 1 St April and we have had a walk with our 2 dogs in the forest nearby accompanied by beautiful birdsong.Yesterday I went to visit Hannah 32 years old and did some weeding in her new home with her finance. Please 🙏 they come back to Jesus's.xxx

kupton52 said...

Thank you so much for the He Is Risen stitchery as all my hopes and dreams for the past, present and future hinge on the fact that He is risen. Your generosity never ceases to amaze me. Blessings from WV,USA.

Anonymous said...

Good Evening Jennifer. I am late getting here... I love your wee corner - I have set my rooms up to be as I want them... still a few cartons to unpack, but I do know where the contents are going to go, now.
Thank you for the embroidery design, that is beautiful, and the scripture is so true.
I see you have had the same 'block' promotion from Woothworths as we did.
I was so lovely to see you family photos, ans see how content the Blossom's family are in their new locale.
Blessings
Maxine

Tammy said...

Thank you very much my Dearest friend Jennifer. sorry I have been super busy lately. Not enough hours in my days and nights lately