Flowing with your season...

(my original photo of the front of our home, remade as a watercolour print, April 2026)

Home is where I am happiest. Home is where I get to live out the familiar rhythms and habits, through all seasons, which keep me grounded and calm and confident. 

Occasionally there are new challenges to face within those familar seasons, mostly the kind which are quickly (or simply) resolved, but every so often there's one which will take more from you than first imagined. 

Days after my last post, it became evident that time would be needed for me to try something new, wait for a result, and finally, to make my peace with what would eventuate. During these past five weeks there's been no desire in my heart to write here, nor even correspond with the many kind and caring emails, messages and comments you have sent to check up on me - but I did cherish each one, and have been so very grateful for your prayers, especially when I am sure you all have challenges of your own to contend with. How incredibly lovely are your hearts! xxx

I did want to clarify something - many messages/emails about my knee assumed that it was arthritis and that I'd need a knee replacement, but that is incorrect. The damage is primarily a cartilage injury (the meniscus) as well as a couple of bone marrow oedemas, the main one in my tibia. These cause swelling and chronic pain, but the problem I mostly have is re-injuring (three times) where the medial meniscus detached nine months ago. Anyhow, whilst I was absent from the blog, I saw the orthopeadic specialist who suggested an injection of hyaluronic acid, hoping that would give some extra cushioning inside my knee while the meniscus continued to heal. The success rate is 50% and it was very expensive, but after such a long time of chronic pain it seemed worth trying at least. Unfortunately, it has not worked. 

But I have had time to consider all my options, and examine every bit of advice given me by the medical professionals. Some of the things I was told to do by physiotherapists made my knee worse, and the more I investigated those exercises, the more I learned how outdated they were. So, I have been doing things a bit differently the past three weeks, and can actually feel some improvement at long last - which has allowed me to return to the garden, and work in it, carefully and mindfully, for a couple of hours most days. As of this week I was able to drive the car 2 kilometres to the shop, but no further due to pain, but two weeks ago I could not drive at all. I relish every blessings, large or small!

The front and back gardens were horribly overgrown and ugly after our monsoonal wet season. I was not sure where to begin, but decided to start slowly, and begin clearing away and pruning. Just doing that over a few days allowed me to envision what was needed at this mid-autumn season, and how I could best return to growing vegetables again. You see, mid-autumn to mid-spring is our growing season in the tropics, and I had thought for many months that I'd miss it this year. 

The grandkids came over one Sunday and 5yo Charlie David spent hours helping Poppy in the garden. Poppy pruned the large trees and bushes, and afterwards Charlie David helped carry the branches to Poppy for shredding. By the end of the morning we had a good deal of mulch for the front and back garden! 

Something my husband and Charlie's dad Ross do a lot of with him, is "men stuff". Teaching young boys how to do things they'll need to know one day with their own families to care for is very important to them. 

And meanwhile Rafaella was in the kitchen with me making a chicken pasta salad. It was her first time using a very sharp knife (one of my Japanese kitchen knives), and she was marvellous cutting all the vegetables while I cooked the pasta and made mayonnaise.

I haven't done any sewing or knitting for three weeks, because the garden has been my focus, but I did complete my March UFO on time...

The backing fabric and binding are favourite prints I have had since 2007!! In fact every fabric used in this project is at least ten years old. People often ask me where they can purchase the fabrics used in my designs and I have to disappoint them because most of the fabric I own is between 8-20 years old. 

I truly love how the table runner finished up, and decided that once the garden is a bit further along I shall make more of those orange peel blocks from my old fabrics and use them as cushion covers for the lounge room - so bright and cheery!

So shall I complete a UFO for April?? I do not know, but tonight I'll have a look through the ones I put aside for this year and see if there's a small project that can be completed easily. I'm rather tired at night... :-)

Anyhow I'll leave you with photos of where I'm up to in the garden as of yesterday. So that you know what's been planted thus far...

Seeds still sprouting and yet to be planted out - daikon radish, red cherry tomatoes, yellow pear tomatoes, lebanese cucumbers, coriander, lemon basil, zinnia and cosmos.

Already potted - bok choy, spring onions, calendula, chives, red tomato, sweet potato, rocket (arugula), snow peas and various herbs. 

Ready to harvest - We also have another huge bunch of bananas growing, the lime tree almost finished producing (we got around 200 limes this year), the lemon grass needing to be thinned and the stalks frozen, plus five huge pumpkins almost ready to harvest.

Seeds to be planted over the weekend - carrots, beetroot, rockmelon and parsley. 

There's still a lot more to do in the front and back gardens, and we're a bit late with the winter planting, but one thing I have come to realise is that doing something is far better than doing nothing. In fact, planting a little is better than not planting at all. An hour a day adds up to seven by week's end if that's all you can manage in a day. If you don't have wonderfully large high garden beds, use pots. I mostly use pots. Just do something that brings your senses alive - and for me that is in the garden. 

For you it may be sitting with your watercolours and painting a scene, or any number of activities which breathe life into your actions and protect your mental health. 

I know that the garden is integral to my mental health. The birds visit each day, and wait for me to feed them. They do not fly away when I come near because they know they're safe around me, and that is such a blessing. Sitting outside watching the birds, enjoying a cup of tea and perusing the fruits of my garden labour - all this is a gift from the Lord, and I do not take those gifts lightly.

I know many of the smaller birds will be building nests soon, so I have hung a mug of yarn scraps from the elder tree for them, after seeing the idea on Niamh's vlog a few years back. 

I hope to be back writing again next week, as I had not intended being absent for so long - but seasons come and go, and rather than be frustrated when a particular season is upended with various challenges, it's important to flow along with them and carry the peace of God with you until that season has passed and a fresh one begins. 

Whatever season you are in right now, whether it be hard or exciting or joyous or confusing, lean on the Lord. Rest in His arms and let His constant and unfailing reassurance carry you through the laughter or tears. I have found there is no other Who can see me through every season of life, as carefully or as faithfully, as my Jesus. 

Chat again soon,

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March days at home and Abigail part 4...

 

How quickly these weeks pass in 2026. I've been needing to take a number of rests each day, but in between those rests my heart is happy to do precious homemaking tasks, which are essential for my good mental health. 

The Lord assists me to ponder the blessings of life, and to keep up with the essential chores, as well as the ones that are done monthly or seasonaly. Last week I spent hours on and off through Monday to deep clean our laundry, knowing the following day would require complete rest, and my goodness, the sense of accomplishment and satisfaction felt afterwards was akin to enjoying a bar of my favourite Turkish Delight! So naturally I ordered one in the following day's grocery delivery. Blossom and I have spent the past 30 years enjoying these as a treat! Do you have a favourite chocolate bar??

I've had numerous emails and messages asking about my knee and many of you thought it was arthritic in nature. I'll answer quickly here, to avoid more email overload (though I am so very thankful for the prayers, love and concern you show me!)...its not arthritis, but a number of other things that occurred during an accident last July. The main source of the pain however, are two 'bone marrow oedemas' which are akin to very sharp knives stabbing my knee and tibia all the time, but worst of all during the night. I finally get to see an orthopaedic specialist next Tuesday and I am hopeful he will be able to guide me through ways to heal. Would love your prayers - thank you. xx

Above is the UFO project I have chosen to complete this month. The blocks began back in 2024 as part of a quilt project a friend and I were both making at the time. She has continued with it, but I got to a certain stage where the reality hit that I would not be able to quilt it by hand as it is a very large quilt, and living in the hot tropics would make such an undertaking very taxing, and we simply cannot afford to have a quilt top professionaly quilted. 

So last year I chose a few blocks to use in a table runner, as I really love the fabrics and colours. The prints used were many years old, and belong to fat quarters, charm squares and yardage, from Lecien a decade ago (who no longer produce fabrics) and some Mary Englebright from about 2008. There's also some other very old prints, and all together they make the happiest display for a table topper. 

Have you been working on a March UFO project? What is it?

One other project I already finished this month was the bunny I knitted all the pieces for last October and November, but had not sewn together. Finally I did that the first week of March and gifted it to Rafaella for her 8th birthday last week. She absolutely loved it and takes her bunny-girl to bed every night.

There was a lot of purple DK yarn in my knitting supplies after the bunny's dress, shoes and bow were completed, so I thought it would be fun to knit myself a pair of slipper socks in the hope of having a cool winter this year. My mindset was "if you make it, winter will come". Ha ha!! We shall see. ;-)

Not being at all interested in knitting socks on four needles, I came across this pattern for two-needle socks on Pinterest and decided to give it a try. Now the pattern called for DK yarn and 3mm needles, so I assumed (we should never assume, right?) that using the Stylecraft DK yarn from the UK would be the same as what was in the pattern...but nooooo. 

Having never heard of Super Corfou, I did a google and it just said DK, so I googled no further. And admittedly I did not knit a tension square, because I'm lazy like that. Shocked? Don't be. 

Not far into the pattern I could see these socks being rather small for my size 7 feet (EU 37)...

...but still, I knitted on. Once begun, I loved the texture and colours, so I decided they'd fit one of my granddaughters.  

Both feet are completed now, I just need to stitch them up. Before winter would be good. 

Now that I know the instructions I followed, using my DK yarn and not the one suggested, knit up a much smaller slipper sock than I can wear, the instructions shall be modified to fit my dear feet. Sadly I have no more purple yarn, but there are many other pretty colours in the yarn stash to choose from. I shall keep you posted on how this modified plan works out if you're interested. Or perhaps you have some advice to share?? Larger needles perhaps??

Sourdough baking is becoming a twice a week delight, with a third weekly loaf of 'ordinary sandwich bread' in between. My husband can eat bread with anything, and I mean anything. It's what he goes for around 8pm each night, with a thick slather of peanut butter, and is what he likes generous portions of in his packed lunch for work. Fortunately, breadmaking is my delight! 

It's been almost two months since Rosie and I have been able to meet up for a lovely morning tea and chat. One reason is that I am unable to drive with my knee problem so I can't visit Rosie, and another is that our road is being ripped up (been going on for two years, but now they are right in front of our house and many homes on either side) to lay new pipes, widen the road, alter the lanes, tear down trees, put in traffic lights, and various other obstacles to a peaceful existence, and a third is the monsoonal wet season which has brought flooding much of the time. 

But I had a wonderful surprise on Saturday morning, when Rosie knocked on my door for a two-minute visit, and to bless me with birthday and get-well gifts! Non-residents are not allowed to drive into the roadwork constructions areas, so her dear hubby Brian parked up the road and Rosie walked down to my place. What a happy hug!! Seeing her was so good for my heart, and I was incredibly blessed with the bundle of lovely gifts. She knows me well, and included in all the gifts was a gorgeous ceramic pear and a bag of spearmint leaves (I collect pears, and spearmint leaves are my favourite lollies).

Hopefully I can get back to short sessions on the sewing machine next week, as what I intend making only requires a few minutes on the machine, and the rest can be hand sewn and crocheted. You know I love making jar toppers, and as well as sewing a lot for myself, I have gifted quite a few at Christmas and birthdays. They are so simple to make, and quick too. Some have lace sewn around the edges, some do not, and others I have crocheted around the edge. Some jar toppers are just fabric (lined so that both sides are different), and some have embroidery on top. You can get quite creative with how you make them, but the best thing is how lovely they look in the pantry or on a shelf. 

The photo below was taken in January and you can see what I mean about how lovely they look on jars, especially when they are together along a shelf...

...but this week, I did a huge pantry stock-up shop (home delivery is such a blessing right now) and all my shelves have had to very slowly be emptied, cleaned, and reorganised to accommodate extra supplies.  I decided to use one of those shelves to house all my dried and medicinal herbs, the ones I use for herbal teas. Right now the jars look so very plain, but in coming weeks some new pretty toppers will make everything pleasing to the eye. 

I've quite adjusted to doing everything slowly now. It was hard for many months, and I did my recovery no help by being frustrated and pushing my leg beyond it's ability more times than you'd know. Finally, after my latest MRI in February, I was content to go slowly, to consider my capability and pain level each day before beginning a task. Knitting has been a true delight, beyond any other crafty pursuit since my accident last year. I hope to get back to crochet when winter arrives in June, and eventually complete the blanket I began in 2024, but for now, those hand stitched UFO projects each month are satisfying, and the small knitted items are easy to pick up and put down. Breadmaking is a joy, and so are the simple wholesome meals of old that nourish us and are quick to make, or easy to languish in the slow cooker. I have even learned to roast a whole chicken in the air fryer and it's delicious! 

The garden is too often flooded this wet season, and completely overgrown with weeds, but it can wait until I am healed and functioning. Some things just have to wait, while other things take priority, and there's no need to feel bad about that. Life is a series of seasons, and when you accept that, and choose to work with whatever season you're in, your mind can be calm, your heart at peace, and you know that you know God is still in control. That truth is what I lean on, it's what gives me hope, it holds me steady when the storms of life swirl around, and it is what I hope you know too. 

ABIGAIL: part four

The final part of our study has been published and you will find it HERE on the Abigail page of my blog.

What a blessing this study has been in putting my own character under the microscope of God's Word! May it be a source of blessing to you as well. 

Until next time my lovelies, 

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Everyday life while convalescing...

 

Well, February is almost over, and this week I played around with my Makers Journal, adding two new pages to show some of what has been made this month. 

Charlie David's "Misselthwaite Mitts" were completed and he wears them every day, even in our ghastly hot and humid summer. He sends me voice messages every few days to tell me he loves me, and as all Nanas know, that precious grandson melts my heart. 

He loves sunrise and sunsets, so this yarn was perfect. They only took me two days to complete, and as they are small I chose to knit on small double pointed needles instead of my long stainless steel ones. To avoid losing stitches or stabbing myself, these very cute little elephant needle toppers were employed.

I always make a few batches of plum jam during February and March each year, and last week the first batch were ready.

I'll plan another batch in a few weeks, as for now I must stay close to the couch. Pots of herbal tea, made with herbs from the garden which I dried last year (ginger, tulsi, mint) and some I purchased online (rosehip and willowbark), are very soothing during this newly extended period of convalescense as I knit and hand sew...

Our Kelly-dog just turned two, and is definitely no longer a pup. He's a sleeper, a snoozer, a fellow who just loves to watch and rest, especially at the front window. Our entire road is being ripped up and new pipes laid, so out front we have trenches 8 feet deep by 8 feet wide and 20 feet long, right across the front of our house (and the neighbours homes too) and it's a bit of a minefield for hubby to get in and out with the car each day, especially as this is the wet season. We have no drains right now and watching those trenches fill up and flow over with mud and down our driveway is not easy. But, many months from now this will all be complete and life on our road can return to normal. 

Kelly-dog loves to watch the workmen and machinery from the front window, resting his long dachshund head on the sill...and then promptly falls asleep and snores. It's the funniest thing! 

It's been two weeks since my last blog post, and I wasn't sure if I'd even blog this week - not because I didn't want to, but because I've had more tests on my knee recently, and the level of pain increased to such a point that sitting at my desk to use the computer wasn't easy. In fact, the key to my recovery now, given the latest results which show a new problem inside two of my bones, is to rest for quite a few months. I must avoid as much weight bearing as possible, and be rather strict with myself if I am to ever recover and get back to 'normal' activities. 

This means no gardening, no using a sewing machine (due to the sitting, and the foot pedal pressure), no driving (haven't driven for about six weeks already), and now not even sitting as a passenger in the car as this causes more pain than I can handle these days - and many other must-not-dos for around six months.

Last week in the early morn, after a few days of feeling quite sorry for myself (though some of that was from the constant lack of sleep and painkillers not working) I cried out again to God for help in coping with the constant pain, physical limitations, inability to ever leave the house, and the 'aloneness' (not loneliness) of life when my husband is at work six days a week...when I heard a kookaburra laughing nearby.

You know they are my favourite bird. They bring me so much joy whenever they visit, but their visits are rare now since the huge poincianna in our yard split twice last year, and is no more. They would often rest in the tree, and sing their laughing chorus as I hung the washing on the line...oh how I've missed that in the past year. Yet last week, one returned and sat on that clothesline, singing it's laughing song. I stood outside under the elder tree and we watched each other for a good ten minutes. I was praying and giving thanks to God for it's visit, when I sensed deep within me these words from the Lord - "I see you, I hear you, I am with you." Hubby came out and I cried on his shoulder, tears of joy for the comfort received from my Father in Heaven.

I turned to go and get my camera, when it flew from the clothesline to the fence and posed for a photo.

My outlook changed right then and there. Yes, this is a difficult time, but it's not as bad as many others experience, and hopefully healing will occur eventually. Accepting a lot of extra help from my husband has been a lesson in humility I'd rather not learn again, so I will be a jolly good student this time round. Having always been the one to care and tend for our home while he works long hours, and making sure he returns home each evening to a space that is calm and beautiful and welcoming, this season of life has turned things around in many ways - but let us not forget, a welcoming home, a sanctuary, is more about the attitude of those who dwell within, and the presence of the Holy Spirit in every corner. 

So I have slowed a lot, with intention, and surrender to my current disability. In fact, it occurred to me that sewing can still be done, but it will be by substituting the sewing machine with my very own nimble fingers. Which is what I did yesterday with my 2026 Adventure UFO project for February. 

At the weekend I stitched the gusset of the pincushion with a row of cross-stitches and running stitch, in the same thread colours I used in the top.

The round top and bottom, plus the gusset, were all backed with Parlan, so hand sewing them all together was a bit on the bulky side...

I used a lot of pins to secure the top and gusset together, but then decided to baste the two sections together instead and remove the pins before properly hand stitching the seams. The main reason for this was the mess made when some of those pins took aim at my fingers...

Fortunately, the blood was on the wrong side of the fabric, apart from one teeny tiny spot amidst the applique. 

Once it was all sewn and stuffed, I added cross stitches around the top edge. It turned out to be a wonderful little pin cushion and I'm so glad to have persevered and completed it all by hand. 

Tomorrow I shall display it in photos on a new page in my Makers Journal, and that will probably be my final finish for February. 

It was my 67th birthday on Saturday and hubby very carefully drove us over to Blossom's so the children could give me a party, bless them. 

I am excited about the future, and not because I'm focused on healing, but because this life is temporary, and I know what is yet to come far exceeds what is behind. There was a time when we were homeschooling and the kids use to talk about all the things they'd like to achieve one day, but you know how they'd say it?  "If Jesus hasn't come back yet, I want to..." We taught them from birth to number their days, and now Blossom teaches her own children to expect the second coming of Jesus one day.

My Nana always said "Lord willing we shall..." which made me aware of God's sovereignty over all things, and having grown up with that in my mind these past 67 years, even before giving my life to Christ in 1991, there is a realisation now of how much closer I am to seeing Him than ever before, and I am excited. 

When He returns on the clouds of heaven with the loudest trumpet blast the earth has ever known, and all the angels, I hope to see Him in all His glory - no matter whether I am alive still, or sleeping in the grave - I pray that I'll be with those who are lifted up into the air to meet Him and be with Him forevermore. May that be your hope too. 

In the meantime, I shall make it my intention to lead a quiet life, to mind my own business, and work with my hands, just as the Bible instructs us. Funny how this has become so relevent to my current season of life. I have always tried to live this way, but now it has taken on a deeper meaning. God's life lessons never grow old... :-)

Not sure which UFO project I shall decide to complete in March, but it will all be hand stitched so I shall choose carefully. 

How about you? What have you been making lately in the kitchen, sewing room, garden, pottery shed...?? Are you hindered by an injury and if so, what changes have you needed to make?

God bless dear ones, and know you are held in my heart and in my prayers.

Until next week,

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