Monday, November 25, 2024

An eventful week...

 Well, some weeks surprise you, don't they?

Having decided to take my husband's advice and make time last week for genuine rest stops between my activities around the home and garden, plus a few hours of watching Cully May and Charlie while Bloss took Rafaella to the dentist, things unfolded a little differently.

Hubby had a day off work on Wednesday and we decided to drive out to a little outback country town where we lived from 2009-2011. It's a beautiful place and we have long held hopes of moving back there when he retires, but it's really just a dream, so these slow days when we visit are very special as the atnosphere is so calm and peaceful - something we love. 

It was a lovely day, but a bit wearying, so we had an early night and woke next morning to RAIN. Oh thank the Lord, we finally got RAIN! Since March we have only had one day of very light rain (in June), but this ended up being three days of gentle showers and a few heavier ones - the garden was ecstatic! On that Thursday I gathered my sewing and sat quietly with my needle listening to the raindrops and enjoying the cooler temperature. 

But of course, over at Blossom's the children wanted to go outside and play in the rain...as most children do! Naturally she sent them out with her blessing, but within a few minutes, Cully May had slipped and was crying out in distress. Fast forward an hour, and Blossom dropped off Rafaella and Charlie to me, and headed off to the hospital with Cully May, where Ross would meet them. 

I kept the two children occupied with a variety of crafts (and plenty of nibbles) while we waited for news on Cully May...


...and once that news came, it wasn't good. Our sweet 8yo has broken four of the toes in her left foot. As everything was still swelling, the orthopaedic surgeon has put her in a boot for 8-9 days, and will then do another MRI before making the decision about putting pins in before switching her to a cast. She has a lot of pain right now, but the painkillers help her to also have some good hours each day and in the night. She had crutches until today, but they are difficult for children and the hospital thought it best she get a paediatric wheelchair, which they picked up this morning. She face-timed me to show how well she uses it around the house - wonderful news. :-)

Yesterday (Sunday) we decided to bring Rafaella and Cully May to our house for the day, and do some new homeschooling lessons, plus give the girls some fun activities with Poppy as he doesn't get to see them as often as me. 

Cully May is very bright and has long wanted to build a robot, so Poppy bought this kit to do with her...


...and they spent five hours building Tobbie together. Hubby's previous occupation as a technology teacher certainly has advantages for our grandchildren, and he was simply amazing teaching and assisting her. As you can see, she was a very happy young lady working on her robot with Poppy...


Meanwhile, Rafaella and I baked some bread rolls from a favourite recipe, to use at lunchtime for making mini hamburgers (the girls LOVE hamburgers!), and then we baked a gluten free pineapple upside down cake for dessert (I am gluten free) - but we forgot to take photos. Too much fun!

Then Rafaella had her first sewing lesson. You see, the day before I had bought a second hand Janome off FB Marketplace for $75 and it was in almost new condition. My plan for a while has been to teach the girls to sew on a machine, and this one was listed at just the right time.


I set it up in my sewing room, on the little table from their cubby house. First I had Rafaella practice sewing lines that I had drawn on paper. She did three pages of lines until she could see they were practically all straight - and then we began with the fabric. 


She wanted to make a yellow pincushion, so that's exactly what she did. I instructed her along the way, and helped with things like turning the pincushion right side out, and afterwards stitching the opening shut by hand...but she sewed all the seams, stuffed it nice and firm, and then together we sewed two buttons either side. 


So excited was she, that she went on to make another two little cushions for her dolly beds at home! I will get photos when I visit them tomorrow, as I forgot yesterday amid all that was happening during the day. 

Rafaella is Level 2 Autistic and is mostly non-verbal. She has sensory issues and is non-social, and as per her assessment (by a beautiful Christian psychologist whom we have known for more than 20 years) will lead a very different life even in adulthood. Homeschooling helps her to feel secure, as she does not have to leave the home or deal with others. That's the simplest explanation that I'll share with you, for as in all cases with precious children like her there are a lot more issues as well, but we keep them within the family. 

After the robot was built, Cully May wanted to learn how to sew on the machine as well, but we needed to get her settled on my old comfy chair so she could use my own sewing machine - there was no way with her foot that she could get down low and use the small machine Rafaella had used. 




While Cully May was learning how to sew, Poppy took Rafaella out to the pool for a swim and to help her practice her backstroke. We took the girls home in time for their tea and stories and bedtime. It was a wonderful day!

Here's Cully May's pincushion all finished...


We went to bed early again last night, as Nana and Poppy were plumb tuckered out...but what a happy and productive day we'd all had together. 

This morning my beloved once again instructed me to take things slow, as I waved him off to work. So I went out back and spent two hours cleaning the undercover area next to the carport, and that led to lots of bits and pieces of washing and rearranging, and repotting a few plants...until at 10am, I felt myself being so emptied of energy that I came inside and switched on the air conditioner, brewed a decaf coffee and covered it with leftover whipped cream from the upside down cake the day before. A couple of gluten free muffins I baked the other day filled a plate, and I was ready to put my feet up and truly rest. 


Rest is such a needed thing for us all after busy days, stressful trials, recovering from illness, or having to deal with unforseen concerns. No matter what you are facing today, sweet ones, rest in Jesus. Make time, even if you only have fifteeen minutues, to sit down, put your feet up if you can, and lean on Him. He has restored my soul today, for I was feeling every bit of my 65 years, and more, when I woke this morning, but I pushed myself further than I should and by 10am, my body gave out. Surrendering to rest isn't laziness, my dear sisters...it's humbling, it's showing kindness to our body/mind/spirit, and it draws us into the arms of Jesus. 

I had another blog post I wanted to share last week, but life stepped in, so I'll get back to it for you in a few days. It's all about working with woven wool felt...my new pleasure. 

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19 comments:

Lin said...

Oh dear, poor Cully May, such a lot of pain for a little one. But she looks so happy making her robot and pin cushion. What a lovely day you had with them both. And Rafaella did so well too. Gorgeous little girls. xx

Allie said...

Praying for Cully May - OUCH! Yes crutches are a lot of work and they do hurt under your arms....I had to be on them for 8 weeks one time. Exhausting. I'm so glad you got to spend some quality time with the girls. Praying for Blossom as well! So much going on, girl. Please do rest, everything in nature rests, it's God's gift to us.

Lara said...

Poor girl, but we know that God is with her. He will give her comfort. She'll do well.

I would love your muffin recipe, as I have a daughter that's celiac.

Rest is so important, I say this as I need to rest myself. I push and push until I'm ready to fall over. God Bless you.

Anonymous said...

Prayers for y'all. xEsther

Joanne said...

Hi Jennifer,
Nice surprise in my in box :)
Cully May ! She is very talented at a lot of things ! How does one break 4 toes ? The Doctor must have heard a great story from her :) Hope the healing process goes well .
So wonderful to see their faces as they enjoy there time with you :)
hugs, take care,
Joanne

Sharon Aurora said...

Ouch! Poor little sweetie. But it looks like the girls are having a good time with you both.

On another note, I tried signing up for your new newsletter, but the form's not working for me. Is there another way to sign up?

Susan said...

Prayers for Cully Mae and for Rafaella and all of you. I think they both did very well with their pincushions.

Julie said...

Oh dear me ... poor sweet Cully May & her foot! I hope it mends soon dear Jennifer - although they seem to adjust quickly to a moon boot, probably quicker than us adults.
How wonderful that you are teaching them to sew ... & their pincushions are just adorable. What a great encouragement you are to them Jennifer. But Yes I know how exhausting it is & I am pleased to read you are remembering to rest. As I am this very afternoon while I feel as though I have "run completely out of petrol". Sending love to you my sweet friend x0x

Anonymous said...

Poor darling Cully Mae. I broke my ankle as a teen and did not enjoy the confinement, but could understand the need to stay quieter. Must be hard for a little girl!
I loved reading that you are teaching your granddaughter to sew. I have no grands of our own but God placed other young ladies in my life to share my love of sewing with. So much fun to help them learn skills they can use through life! Many blessings to you. I am going back to finish my 1st crocheted sweater!

kiwimeskreations said...

Oh dear what an eventful and unexpected week!!
I do pray Cully May heals quickly.
I also have neurodivergent grandies.. both are at school, one after a couple of years of home schooling, the other is in the process of having assistance put in place...
Love the two pincushions... well done.
I have also learnt to 'slow down' somewhat in the past year or so.... much to my frustration.
Blessings
Maxine

Kay said...

Oh my, you have been busy with life and helping your lovely family. Sending prayers for quick healing of toes. X

Anonymous said...

Oh dear, what a week for all of you. I hope a more relaxed weeks will follow. Thank you for sharing your experiences and family with us. I am looking forward to the new newsletter. We all need to listen to your hubby and take time to slow down. Sending love and hugs to all of you.

Anonymous said...

Hi I'm sorry for Cully May! I hope she gets well soon!
I pray for all of you
Hugs and best wishes from Italy

titti said...

Hi I'm sorry for Cully May! I hope she gets well soon!
I pray for all of you
Hugs and best wishes from Italy
Excuse me I hadn'tlogged in before!!

Anonymous said...

Oh gosh, dear Jenn, I'm so sorry to read of poor Cully May's misfortune! I would also like to know how one breaks 4 toes (and not the 5th one, too)? I remember back to when I was 12, broke my ring finger on left hand in sewing class (Home Ec). I had to walk around with my finger in a splint (we could've made a cheaper one from a craft stick!), holding it up or else it would throb. Many prayers for fast healing and hopefully no pins needed. I just love that you go by Nana, I also go by Nana, as did my own Mother and my sister. I have one daughter that is gluten-free and dairy-free and one that is just dairy-free. I would love your muffin recipe, also. Many hugs and prayers for the whole family. I have a small sewing machine waiting for my 4 year old granddaughter to learn to sew. How old is Rafaella? I never remember which one is older. Many blessings to you and lots of rest, too. Kathy aka sewbee831

Winifred said...

Oh poor little soul Cully May! She seems to be coping so well bless her. Rafaella has succeeded with learning to sew, how wonderful and such a great thing for her confidence and enjoyment.
You do need to pace yourself Jennifer, no good wearing yourself out. Be good!

It's so lovely to hear about your life in Australia. You're sweltering whilst we're freezing! It's an odd world, sometimes heartbreaking and at other times so beautiful. God bless you and your lovely family. XXX

Angie in SoCal said...

Mine, also, was an unexpected week. I care give my mom, and Monday I arrived at her house (an hour away) to fine her hands and feet were swollen as the week before. I was concerned and emailed her doctor with this to me unsettling occurrence. His staff called and asked me to call back, but my phone wouldn't work, so I only reached them at the close of the day. The next morning, Tuesday, I called back. The nurse said the doctor wanted us to take her to urgent care. So off we went. The first thing they did was take an EKG. It was abnormal. The PA who was attending us wanted us to take to Emergency care which is not in the same facility. They feared a hear attack. They called 911. By now I was getting worried. I drove myself to the ER. Thankfully, it was only 5 miles away. She was admitted and they did another EKG. Again abnormal. The ER doctor then came in and said after listening to her lungs that her heart was stressed and there was the beginning of water in them. A slew of tests then. One was a chest x-ray that showed a small mass in her left lung. So they ordered a Cat Scan. Plus her blood pressure was high - 185. My worry rose. The next step was to give her Lasik's to lower her blood pressure. That worked ! The CT scan proved that the mass was just calcium spots for some time ago. And that she needed another drug to keep her BP down. Through it all I kept my hope in God's aid for my 98 year old Mom. After 9.5 hours we were to take her home and follow up with her regular doctor. God is good!

Mirror said...

Poor little sweet Cully...I am sure she will get well soon with the cuddles of you all and the prayers of all us.
Thank you for another nice post, despite this bad episode for Cully May. I understand her with the crutches:-))) I am an adult but couldn't use them a few years ago when I broke my foot.
Have a nice week end, big hug,
Miriam

Miriam said...

I have just realized that I wrote Mirror :-)) instead of Miriam Sorry, but sometimes the telephone writes what it wants
Miriam