Thursday, October 8, 2026

With a purpose in mind...

One of the channels I watch regularly on YouTube is Kiko Sabi. She is a Canadian wife to a Japanese husband, and is quite prolific in the variety of handcrafts she carefully learns, practices, and then creates with.

Initially I found her interesting to watch each Sunday afternoon, and enjoyed the silent 30ish minute videos with gentle music and subtitles. She was a beginner to many crafts and each week there was something new to be seen as she began making various items, often with a Japanese theme or technique. 

But there was something I enjoyed even more, especially now, two years later. It was the purpose she had for each item made. Rarely was it whimsy, though in the beginning there were practice pieces, but over the past year and a half Kiko has had a very clear purpose for all the things she makes - whether that be spinning yarn , knitting, crochet, embroidery, boro, sashiko, darning, sewing her own clothes etc. 

I have been pondering her way of thinking for a month or two, and it's changed the way I plan and create. Looking back, especially those first few years before I started designing, when I was teaching myself to embroider and quilt, I saw something lovely and immediately made it. It really did not matter whether it had a place in our home or a purpose, because I just loved the various aspects of sewing and had a project (or five) on the go all the time. Some were given to family and friends as gifts, some were placed around the house, and some were stored away in large plastic tubs because I did not know what to do with them, or were donated. After a while it became clear that other people like me were doing this as well, as though it were a natural part of the sewing/quilting culture in that time. 


Now I want what I make to have a purpose. Just having this mindset has allowed me to slow down and enjoy the sewing/stitching process more than I ever did, because I no longer feel the need to make so many of the lovely quilts or projects I see online or in books/magazines (and I no longer design 4-6 hand embroidery patterns a month for a living).

Back at the end of 2018 God directed me to "use what you already have" and eight years later this is the first thing that comes to mind when I'm considering what to cook, or sew, or plant, or create with. Lately I've been going a bit further and looking at ways to keep using what I have by repairing or mending or altering those items. My clothes have become a good avenue for living out this habit, and many dresses, linen pants and nightgowns are now mended and back 'in service' again - but I also spent an afternoon cutting up the items that are too worn and discarding the fabric which is unusable, whilst saving the good sections of fabric for future use. 

Now with Kiko's philosophy, and creating purposefully at the forefront of my mind, I began to look around our home to see what was actually needed. That tiny red rice bag I made last month was sewn from scrap fabrics (vintage linen I bought years ago mostly) and my own sketchings for the embroidery. Along with the tiny pinushion and needlebook made the following week, this item is in use every single day now. It holds all I need for my evening embroidery, looks lovely, is small, taught me how to make a rice bag, and makes me smile!

This past week I made another three purposeful projects. The rice bag pictured above, and below, came about because I had been working on some sashiko embroidery blocks, learning the rice flower stitch, and making use of some reclaimed blue cotton dress fabric. Initially I'd considered making this larger rice bag for holding yarn, but in my sewing room, something that bugs me is the foot pedal and power cord for my sewing machine. I wind them both together and push them loosely into the throat space of the machine to keep them out of the way - but they do not have an actual place to be stored.


So over the past few days I made a larger rice bag with sashiko on four sides, fabrics cut from two old dresses, and smaller offcuts of quilt wadding. Each square was 7.5". This now houses my foot pedal and power cord beautifully. 

(This is the outside before sewing the sides together. The lining is the same, also made from five equal measure squares)



Last week I burned my hand getting a tray out of the oven, because silly me used a damp tea towel! I had some small leftover pieces of Insulbrite in the cupboard and decided to purposefully sew some pot holders, and I chose a design which had caught my eye over ten years ago. The pattern was a free one by Amy Sinibaldi of Nana Company, and though her old blog is no longer around, she has republished this free tutorial on her new webpage HERE
These are the two I made on Saturday afternoon. Two layers of Insulbrite in the base (for extra heat protection) and one layer of cotton quilt wadding in the top. The fabrics are by Lori Holt and mostly leftovers from a quilt project (still not sewn together years later...oh dear). These are actually quite easy to make, which surprised me, and would make excellent useful gifts with Christmas just a few months away. I intend making more and gifting some to my daughters. 



Something else I did this past week was to makeover a mini ironing board found at the opshop for $5. Cully May and I saw two of them there a month ago, in very dirty and tatty condition, but I had not stopped thinking about them since, regretting not getting one at the time because I currently use a piece of wood with Insulbrite and fabric wrapped around it. So I prayed and asked the Lord to hold one for me until I could get back to the shop, or for another to be donated before I arrived there.
On Tuesday I went back to the shop and could not see them, so I went for a short wander around anyhow. And there it was, hidden behind a stand of large framed pictures, but I could not mistake the horrible tattered fabric that poked out from behind them. 

Once home I threw away the old cover and removed the thin foam which was glued to the wire top, gave it a jolly good clean and got to work on giving it purpose once more. 


I traced the ironing board shape onto the old Insulbrite (previously wrapped around my piece of wood) and was able to get two pieces. Yay! Then I cut a wider piece of scrap cotton quilt wadding, and some sturdy cotton fabric for the outer cover. 




What a blessing! Just $5 for the donated mini ironing board, and everything else was reused from what was already in my sewing room. 
Such a productive week, and all projects had real purpose. :-)

I did also make time for baking a fresh loaf of sourdough, which was enjoyed with all we had left of the apricot jam I made last season. Soon the apricots will be back, hopefully before Christmas, and I'll be able to restock the pantry with another year's worth of delicious apricot jam - though I do wonder if this is in fact apricot conserve because I use whole fruits (halved) in my jam. I absolutely love getting those big bits of apricot when I have it on bread or toast!





There's more purposeful projects on my list now, and my heart is very excited about that. In fact, it seems that the Lord has opened my eyes to 'see' what I've missed by too often being swept away and tempted by other things that are lovely to the eye, but not particuarly of any great use. 
Message to self - "Useful projects can be beautiful too you know, Jennifer".

God bless dear ones, and please let me know if you've had similar thoughts of being more purposeful in what you make. Have you discovered projects that make a difference in your home, or in your life? Useful and purposeful gifts to make? What are they?? 

Much love!!
Until next time,

PS: My Etsy Shop is always open, so please drop by if you are in the mood for something new to stitch.


  


 

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Jennifer, thank you for saying so clearly and gently, something that has been worrying me for a while: the excesses of hobby crafting. I loved your project to finish some ufos; and I have achieved so much following along, month by month. Truly I have enough to last me my time out, let alone those I inherited from my mother in law! But as you so rightly point out- to what purpose? So many hand crafted items end up in the charity shops, still unused. I admit to using many items others may have considered “too good to use,” in my daily life, and love to rotate things seasonally. But we are so often influenced into wanting to make the next trendy thing unnecessarily and expensively, to what end? To think hard about an items actual use is wise advice indeed.

Gracie said...

I also follow Kiki. She. like you, has a gentle approach to her everyday life. It is so easy to make just to make. Thank you and Kiki for encouraging us to make do and to use our talent wisely.

Donna P. said...

We've been chatting about this on an email list I belong to. We have so many cross stitch projects that should we live to 150, we'd never get them done - mostly free projects from different designers. Also, Mike and were just talking about this. I stitch Christmas ornaments for family every year. However, I rarely make anything for us because there's just no more room on our walls in our RV. :-) And quilts - I have 4 to make for next year. Then what? I have all that fabric...You see where I'm going with this? :-)
So, I'm going to take your advice (which I love!) and craft "purposefully".
And speaking of ironing boards, I have one just like yours - I need to recover it from burns and coffee stains (oops) - would you be willing to give me an idea on how to do this?
Much love and blessings to you and yours

Anonymous said...

I loved everything you said about crafting with purpose and using what we have in our homes. I have a tote filled with embroidery pieces so am going to start there with using them in thoughtful and useful ways. I have lovingly collected vintage items but stopped years ago and have been thrilled by the way the Lord has inspired me to use them in new ways and to gift them to others that will treasure them as I do.

Anonymous said...

Nearly all of my knitting and crochet is donated or given away. It's only in the past few years that I've made myself anything. The need is extraordinary here in the US (folks want 5K mittens here, 5k hats there, and there seems to be always a need for washcloths/dishcloths to be distributed, and the biggest organization to support kids 0-5 will take hand knit bibs and blankets.) It is all very sobering how much need there is given how well off the other half is doing (The S&P 500 had 27 record high closes in 2026.)

Toni Reed said...

I also spent many years creating one lovely quilt after another. Always looking for a new challenge. I have lost count of how many I made, but then when my husband and needed to downsize, I needed to gift or donate many items. Most of them never used other than display. Our family had more quilts than they could possibly use plus only kept them for sentimental reasons. After that I thought I had lost my passion for creating lovely things, but only some of that was true. I did not desire to continue "manufacturing items." I, also, now enjoy creating for a purpose or person and doing my best to use what I have.

The years before me a not many and I desire my time and passion to be used by the Lord in a meaningful way. I approach all tasks more slowly and deliberately -- without rating my day by my productivity.

I am only getting know this "new normal" of myself, but I have more time to spend with our precious Savior and what could be better. Thank you for your encouragement and love.

Anonymous said...

Thank you, Jenny, for introducing me to Kiki and her hand making too. She has such a thoughtful and purposeful process that is beautiful. I had not really crafted anything for a few years until recently when time and space opened up again and I took out an old stitching of nasturiums I had done over twenty years ago and a small calico flour bag I had collected and stashed. I stitched the embroidered nasturtiums onto the flour bag and made it into a drawstring bag which I filled with collected garden seeds before gifting to a dear friend. It felt so good to be making again with a clear thought about what I wanted to create, what the purpose was and the unhurried time to create and enjoy it.
Meg

TerryKnott.blogspot.com said...

What a win for the week! Three purposeful FINISHED projects! I like your plan for future making.

Two Patchwork Bunnies said...

Yes, crafting with purpose has also been on my mind lately. I don't know whether it is an age thing - I am 60 next year or the fact we are downsizing. My husband gently pointed out that I don't make quilts despite having a large fabric stash nor do I ever look at my stash of magazines and books. So I have been going through these publications and discovering firstly, my taste has changed and secondly asking myself is it a useful item to make. I have discovered that this is a very liberating exercise as I am beginning to feel less pressured over the need to make lots of different items. So thankyou, Jennifer, for such a timely blog post.